How Many Cooks Do You Need in the Kitchen?

Written by HW | Jun 3, 2026 8:48:57 PM

I have spent enough time around entrepreneurs, nonprofit leaders, founders, operators, and executives to know one thing: Most of them care deeply about the work. They are driven. They are passionate. They are committed to the mission. That passion is often what creates growth in the first place. It's also what creates one of the most common leadership challenges I see. Everyone wants to help.

The Kitchen Problem

Imagine you're preparing a large meal. One person is responsible for the recipe. Another is focused on timing. Someone else is watching the budget. Another person is thinking about presentation. A few more are concerned about safety and quality.Every perspective has value. In fact, the meal is probably better because those perspectives exist.

The challenge begins when everyone is trying to stir the same pot at the same time. Progress slows. Decisions become harder. Ownership becomes unclear. The meal takes longer to serve. Some believe only when then change the recipe they contribution was valuable. 

Why This Happens in Nonprofits

Nonprofits are especially susceptible to this challenge. Board members and leadership and staff teams care deeply. Donors care deeply. Volunteers care deeply. The mission matters.

Because the mission matters, people naturally want a voice in important decisions.

That isn't a weakness, it's evidence that people are invested. The question isn't whether people should contribute.The question is when and how they should contribute and do they truly believe that they are valued regardless of input level.

Not Every Decision Needs Every Person

One of the healthiest organizations I worked with had a simple philosophy.Invite people into the decisions where they can provide the most value. That sounds obvious, but many organizations struggle with it.

A brainstorming meeting may benefit from broad participation. An implementation meeting may require only a handful of people. A strategic discussion may need executive leadership. A creative review may need marketers, storytellers, and designers.

Not every person needs to attend every meeting.Not every opinion needs to shape every decision.That doesn't diminish someone's importance. It increases clarity.

The Difference Between Input and Ownership

One lesson that took me years to learn is that input and ownership are not the same thing. Healthy leaders gather input. Healthy teams share perspectives. Healthy organizations encourage disagreement. At some point, however, someone needs ownership. Someone needs responsibility. Someone needs the authority to make the final call and move the project forward even when not everyone 100% agrees.

Without ownership, even great ideas will die. The people you serve cannot benefit from plans that never leave the conference room.

Build a Better Kitchen

The solution isn't fewer voices. The solution is understanding when each voice adds the most value. Invite people into the process.Listen carefully. Respect different perspectives and know that there are 100 ways to run a campaign and that not everyone agrees all the time. Create clear ownership and move forward.

The best kitchens don't succeed because only one person is cooking.

They succeed because everyone understands their role.

When the right people contribute at the right time, remarkable things can happen.